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Refer a Friend Terms

Referral Program Terms

Registered itsbyu users (“you”) may earn cash by referring new customers to itsbyu through our referral program (“Referral Program”). If you are a registered itsbyu user and choose to participate in the Referral Program, you must agree to these terms.

How to Participate in the Referral Program

You will be assigned a personal referral link for referring customers by visiting our Referral Program Share page or on various Referral Program Sharing elements across the site. To participate, you may refer friends who have not previously signed up to itsbyu by sending them your personal referral link. Each new customer you refer who clicks on your personal referral link will receive a promo code redeemable at prior to the promo code’s expiration date.

Receiving Reward Cash

You will receive the amount of reward cash of $25 USD as specified on our referral page via PayPal 30 days after a referred customer has completed their first Qualifying Purchase (defined below) using your Referral Program promo code received by clicking on your personal referral link and following the instructions from the link. You will only receive reward cash for up to 23 customer purchases, or $575 USD. You may refer more customers than 23 and more than 23 may complete first Qualifying Purchase, but we will not reward you with additional cash past $575 USD.

Donating Reward to Charity

At present, you can donate your referral reward only to the charities on our default list of charities.

Qualifying for the Referral Program

To qualify for a Referral Program promo code, the referred customer must (i) be a new itsbyu customer, (ii) use a referral link to obtain a Referral Program promo code and (iii) make a purchase of $250 or more using the Referral Program promo code on itsbyu in accordance with the terms (a “Qualifying Purchase”). If your friend does not follow the directions in the invite email or other valid invite mechanism to accept the invitation, you may not receive referral cash, and itsbyu will have no liability to you for your friend’s failure to follow directions.

PayPal regulations prevent itsbyu from sending money to PayPal accounts that are categorized as Non-Profit Organizations (NPOs). You should set up a Personal PayPal account to receive the rewards. 

PayPal regulations prevent itsbyu from sending money to PayPal accounts in Russia or Ukraine, so please ensure that your account is set up outside of these countries to be able to receive their rewards.

Sharing Referral Links

Referrals should only be used for personal and non-commercial purposes, and only shared with personal connections that will appreciate receiving these invitations. Referring customers may not collect referrals by:

  • Self-referring by using multiple or false names, identities, accounts or email addresses;
  • Referring anyone who is an existing itsbyu customer, including an existing customer with an account under an alternate email address;
  • Using spam or sending unsolicited emails to persons they don’t personally know to collect referrals, or otherwise violating any applicable law, rule, regulation or third party terms of use;
  • Posting on message boards, internet advertisements, public forums, coupon sites or other online venues (such as coupon websites, reddit, or Wikipedia);
  • Permitting another individual to use the referring customer’s account;
  • Referring fake people to itsbyu, impersonating another person, or otherwise providing itsbyu with false or misleading information;
  • Using the personal referral link in any manner that is disparaging or that otherwise portrays itsbyu in a negative light; or
  • Any other restriction we impose on participants in our referral program in our discretion upon prior notice.

If itsbyu determines in its sole discretion that there has been a violation of these terms, itsbyu reserves the right to cancel or rescind a referring customer’s cash reward, cancel the referred customer’s discounted order, and/or determine that one or both parties are ineligible to participate in this or future offers. Referring customers may also be liable for civil and/or criminal penalties under applicable law. Itsbyu reserves the right to void, verify or adjust cash rewards at any time prior to or following posting and redemption.

You agree that having multiple itsbyu accounts is a violation of these Terms and Conditions and that sending invites to alternate email addresses or accounts or otherwise attempting to circumvent itsbyu's referral program system may, without limiting any other itsbyu rights or remedies, result in forfeiture of your account and your referral cash reward. Itsbyu reserves the right to void referrals and referral cash earned if we suspect that the referrals or referral cash rewards were earned in a fraudulent manner, in a manner that violates these Terms and Conditions or in a manner otherwise not intended by itsbyu. You must not conduct your own promotion in connection with our referral program. You may not engage in any promotional, marketing, or other advertising activities on behalf of itsbyu, including by using any trademarks of itsbyu. 

Your Responsibilities

Except as explicitly provided herein, your personal referral link and cash rewards are non-transferable. You are responsible for keeping track of the referrals in your account and notifying us of any discrepancy. You may be required to pay taxes, and we may be required to withhold taxes, if the cash value exceeds certain amounts.


This Referral Program is subject to restriction, modification, suspension or termination at any time upon notice to you in itsbyu’s sole discretion. Itsbyu may suspend or terminate the Referral Program or your ability to participate in the Referral Program at any time for any reason. If any provision in these terms are held to be invalid, void, or unenforceable, such provision (or the part of it that is making it invalid, void or unenforceable) will be struck and not affect the validity of and enforceability of the remaining provisions. We may provide such notice in any way compliant with applicable law including via email to the last email address you provided to us, by amending these terms, or posting a change to our referral program FAQ page. All referral cash is voided immediately upon termination of our referral program. A referred friend may only use one referral link. If a referred friend receives referral links from multiple itsbyu users, only the corresponding itsbyu user of the referral link and corresponding promo code used by the referred friend will receive credit. We reserve the right to suspend accounts or cash rewards if we notice any activity that we believe is abusive or fraudulent. We reserve the right to review and investigate all referral activities and to suspend accounts or modify referrals as deemed fair and appropriate. We can update these terms at any time without prior notice. If we modify these terms, we will post the modification on the itsbyu website, applications, or services, which are effective upon posting. Continued participation in the Referral Program after any modification shall constitute consent to such modification.

The referral cash reward program is void where prohibited by law. Itsbyu reserves the right to modify or terminate the referral program at any time. Should there be any tax liability for the accumulation and/or use of referral cash rewards, such taxes are the sole responsibility of the participant. You understand that your account may not accurately reflect the referral cash you have actually earned. Itsbyu will have no liability for any errors displayed in your account.

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